When I was six months pregnant, people started asking me if I had thought about preschool registration yet. They weren't being facetious; many "prestigious" preschools require that students be on a waitlist before they start solids, and it isn't unheard of for women to be making trips to their school of choice two weeks postpartum. Personally, I am a firm believer in delaying academics for six or seven years, and in the absence of a truly play-based early years program, gave very little thought to where my son would go to school. Of course, it is easier to be above it all before the kid is born.
People's opinions about the trend of increasingly early schooling (most preschools will admit babies between 16 and 24 months old) always interest me, because they betray the many confusions and inconsistencies in what we want for our children versus what we feel is "best." Most mothers express regret at the inevitably stressful experience of dropping off babies at school in the morning, considering most preschoolers begin their academic career before they are verbal, potty trained or even weaned off the breast or bottle. Many have said they feel it is "cruel" to send such young children to school. Others are upset about the separation anxiety, but pleased that their kids are getting a head start in life by being prepared for kindergarten admission tests. Others still are just pleased that their kids have opportunities to socialize in a safe space, with healthy outlets for burning toddler energy few and far between in Karachi.
There's no right answer: preschools do in fact provide children a healthy alternative to watching TV with the nanny while parents work, or being scolded by various household members for being constantly underfoot, as children tend to be. On the other hand, we have reams of research proving that actual academics (flash cards, phonics, worksheets) are not only not beneficial before first grade, they are often detrimental, as they take time away from the true work of a child, which is to explore through play. I shouldn't have to elaborate on why it is bad for children to be exposed to the pressure of parental expectations in admission tests, but because it is a HUGE issue, I will dedicate a whole separate post to it. So what is a working parent living in a joint family, or a couple with an only child with no other children living nearby, or an anxious mother who wants her child to go to the best school, or a lower-middle class family struggling to give their child a better future, to do? I'd say the answer is not to eliminate the trend of sending kids to school or daycare, but to redefine early years education altogether. Let's look at what a century of research into human development and education have to say about the early years:
1) Jean Piaget and Lev Vygotsky, while offering slightly different explanations of children's cognitive development, both agreed that the role of play is critical in the early years and determines everything from speech acquisition to numeracy. Most preschools today are well aware of the importance of play, but they treat it as a means to an end, rather than an end in itself, and the way it is carried out often contradicts the spirit of free exploration which research stresses as developmentally important. There is a difference between making up a game to teach a child how to count to ten and providing a play space which engages all of a child's senses. The former will get you a child who can count (and will therefore appear to be a more successful approach), while the latter will build a diverse portfolio of cognitive skills which will make learning a more natural lifelong process. At the end of the day, do we want children who are prepared for exams, or for life? Do we want a toddler who can count to a hundred, or do we want one who thinks critically, comes up with imaginative solutions to challenges and has excellent problem solving skills? Another critical component of Vygotskian theory is the zone of proximal development: the difference between what a learner can do, and what a learner can do with help. This "help," also known as scaffolding, is a tragically misunderstood concept in many educational settings. It is not helpful to ask the school ayah to run into the classroom to put away toys when a child is tired, It is helpful to have an adult ask a child to put away the toys while assisting with the job. It's not just about teaching responsibility, although that too is sorely lacking in many schools; it's about helping children gain confidence through fully engaging with their environment.
2) The idea of "helping" children versus encouraging independence is often misunderstood and therefore contested amongst parents and teachers. Many imagine a Spartan regime of forcing resilience upon helpless babies (I imagine this is where mothers get the idea that playschool is a "cruel" concept). Instead, research shows that a loving environment, where a child is securely attached to its caregivers, promotes independence; an idea which is paradoxical to many. How can making yourself physically and emotionally available to a child with sudden and unreasonable whims lead to resilience? Anthropological studies show that intuitive practices related to "spoiling" young children, such as co-sleeping, carrying babies after they can walk and responding to them when they first cry, have helped us survive and evolve as a species. But we also know, through simple observation. that if you keep tying a child's laces when he is old enough to do it himself, he will never learn to tie his laces. So where does one draw the line? The answer appears to be through creating an environment where adults are respectful, loving and attentive, but not anxious or hovering. Respect is about understanding what a child can do and letting him try, with the knowledge that an adult is there to assist when needed.
3) Risk-taking is not something that is often discussed with regard to early years schooling, but it should be. It is alarming to read more and more news reports of developed countries becoming nanny states, coming down hard on parents who allow children to walk to the park or climb on a jungle gym without supervision. It ties in with an overall breakdown of trust in society and it is doing our kids no favors. It is impossible to be a successful adults unless you are willing to take risks: talking to a stranger, applying for a new job, choosing a life partner-nothing is without risk. And the smaller risks we take as children, from somersaulting off the sofa to trying to make ourselves toast, teach valuable skills such as spatial awareness, alertness, planning and organization, If we eliminate the smaller risks, putting children in school environments where adults anxiously plead with them to be careful, be careful, be careful, we rob them of all opportunity to grow as individuals. This also ties in to the gender gap in educational achievement: girls are statistically less likely to take risks, because we instill a desire for perfection rather than experimentation, an idea that girls internalize to a greater extent thanks to the many ways we impart outdated ideas about gender.
4) We need to move. Let's say it again: we need to MOVE, all of us, but especially children! The science is abundant on this one and I'm not going to talk about why exercise is important. Children are not meant to sit still in classrooms with occasional recesses to play outside. At preschool age, most don't yet have the fine motor skills to hold a crayon and complete whatever worksheet the teacher has set for them. We know this-as parents and teachers, we often talk about how important it is to let children play outside so they eat better, sleep better, behave better-yet there is a double standard when it comes to preschool. What is the point of constantly asking a toddler to sit down? Why should they be asked not to wriggle in their seats? It's not going to teach them discipline, as so many parents believe, it's just going to send them home with ants in their pants because they haven't worked out the need to move. I'm twenty eight and I get restless when I don't work out for a day. I can't imagine having ten times the energy and being told by people four times my size to shut up and sit down when I am longing to move. This should be obvious, but I still hear teachers and parents say all the time that this is "preparing" children. Preparing them for what? Long haul flights in the economy cabin of an airplane?
5) We need to respect and interact with our natural environment."Nature deficit disorder" is a phrase coined by an author in 2005 and while it hasn't quite reached the legitimacy of mental illness, I really believe it should. Being one with nature is not just about the simple health benefits of sunshine and greenery, it's about understanding the world we live in at a much deeper level than most children currently do. We need to know where the food we eat comes from; which creatures thrive in our environment and why; what living our lives costs the environment and how we can alleviate the problems this creates. I remember when I moved to Pakistan as a child I was puzzled by my peers' aversion to or hatred for animals, insects and dirt. They would shriek with alarm if a bee flew into the classroom, throw stones at stray cats and dogs, sooner be bored inside than risk "getting black" in the sun and mucking about in dirt was something for the maali to do. This is a problem and our schools need to fix it, starting with the mindsets of educators. The earth is not something to shrink away and hide from; it's the only home we've got.
These five principles are the ones on which a number of successful approaches to childhood development are built around, from the Reggio Emilia philosophy to the Waldorf method to the current Finnish guidelines for early years education. I'm waiting for a day when Pakistan catches up. My kid is here now and I'm not any closer to deciding where he goes to school.
People's opinions about the trend of increasingly early schooling (most preschools will admit babies between 16 and 24 months old) always interest me, because they betray the many confusions and inconsistencies in what we want for our children versus what we feel is "best." Most mothers express regret at the inevitably stressful experience of dropping off babies at school in the morning, considering most preschoolers begin their academic career before they are verbal, potty trained or even weaned off the breast or bottle. Many have said they feel it is "cruel" to send such young children to school. Others are upset about the separation anxiety, but pleased that their kids are getting a head start in life by being prepared for kindergarten admission tests. Others still are just pleased that their kids have opportunities to socialize in a safe space, with healthy outlets for burning toddler energy few and far between in Karachi.
There's no right answer: preschools do in fact provide children a healthy alternative to watching TV with the nanny while parents work, or being scolded by various household members for being constantly underfoot, as children tend to be. On the other hand, we have reams of research proving that actual academics (flash cards, phonics, worksheets) are not only not beneficial before first grade, they are often detrimental, as they take time away from the true work of a child, which is to explore through play. I shouldn't have to elaborate on why it is bad for children to be exposed to the pressure of parental expectations in admission tests, but because it is a HUGE issue, I will dedicate a whole separate post to it. So what is a working parent living in a joint family, or a couple with an only child with no other children living nearby, or an anxious mother who wants her child to go to the best school, or a lower-middle class family struggling to give their child a better future, to do? I'd say the answer is not to eliminate the trend of sending kids to school or daycare, but to redefine early years education altogether. Let's look at what a century of research into human development and education have to say about the early years:
1) Jean Piaget and Lev Vygotsky, while offering slightly different explanations of children's cognitive development, both agreed that the role of play is critical in the early years and determines everything from speech acquisition to numeracy. Most preschools today are well aware of the importance of play, but they treat it as a means to an end, rather than an end in itself, and the way it is carried out often contradicts the spirit of free exploration which research stresses as developmentally important. There is a difference between making up a game to teach a child how to count to ten and providing a play space which engages all of a child's senses. The former will get you a child who can count (and will therefore appear to be a more successful approach), while the latter will build a diverse portfolio of cognitive skills which will make learning a more natural lifelong process. At the end of the day, do we want children who are prepared for exams, or for life? Do we want a toddler who can count to a hundred, or do we want one who thinks critically, comes up with imaginative solutions to challenges and has excellent problem solving skills? Another critical component of Vygotskian theory is the zone of proximal development: the difference between what a learner can do, and what a learner can do with help. This "help," also known as scaffolding, is a tragically misunderstood concept in many educational settings. It is not helpful to ask the school ayah to run into the classroom to put away toys when a child is tired, It is helpful to have an adult ask a child to put away the toys while assisting with the job. It's not just about teaching responsibility, although that too is sorely lacking in many schools; it's about helping children gain confidence through fully engaging with their environment.
2) The idea of "helping" children versus encouraging independence is often misunderstood and therefore contested amongst parents and teachers. Many imagine a Spartan regime of forcing resilience upon helpless babies (I imagine this is where mothers get the idea that playschool is a "cruel" concept). Instead, research shows that a loving environment, where a child is securely attached to its caregivers, promotes independence; an idea which is paradoxical to many. How can making yourself physically and emotionally available to a child with sudden and unreasonable whims lead to resilience? Anthropological studies show that intuitive practices related to "spoiling" young children, such as co-sleeping, carrying babies after they can walk and responding to them when they first cry, have helped us survive and evolve as a species. But we also know, through simple observation. that if you keep tying a child's laces when he is old enough to do it himself, he will never learn to tie his laces. So where does one draw the line? The answer appears to be through creating an environment where adults are respectful, loving and attentive, but not anxious or hovering. Respect is about understanding what a child can do and letting him try, with the knowledge that an adult is there to assist when needed.
3) Risk-taking is not something that is often discussed with regard to early years schooling, but it should be. It is alarming to read more and more news reports of developed countries becoming nanny states, coming down hard on parents who allow children to walk to the park or climb on a jungle gym without supervision. It ties in with an overall breakdown of trust in society and it is doing our kids no favors. It is impossible to be a successful adults unless you are willing to take risks: talking to a stranger, applying for a new job, choosing a life partner-nothing is without risk. And the smaller risks we take as children, from somersaulting off the sofa to trying to make ourselves toast, teach valuable skills such as spatial awareness, alertness, planning and organization, If we eliminate the smaller risks, putting children in school environments where adults anxiously plead with them to be careful, be careful, be careful, we rob them of all opportunity to grow as individuals. This also ties in to the gender gap in educational achievement: girls are statistically less likely to take risks, because we instill a desire for perfection rather than experimentation, an idea that girls internalize to a greater extent thanks to the many ways we impart outdated ideas about gender.
4) We need to move. Let's say it again: we need to MOVE, all of us, but especially children! The science is abundant on this one and I'm not going to talk about why exercise is important. Children are not meant to sit still in classrooms with occasional recesses to play outside. At preschool age, most don't yet have the fine motor skills to hold a crayon and complete whatever worksheet the teacher has set for them. We know this-as parents and teachers, we often talk about how important it is to let children play outside so they eat better, sleep better, behave better-yet there is a double standard when it comes to preschool. What is the point of constantly asking a toddler to sit down? Why should they be asked not to wriggle in their seats? It's not going to teach them discipline, as so many parents believe, it's just going to send them home with ants in their pants because they haven't worked out the need to move. I'm twenty eight and I get restless when I don't work out for a day. I can't imagine having ten times the energy and being told by people four times my size to shut up and sit down when I am longing to move. This should be obvious, but I still hear teachers and parents say all the time that this is "preparing" children. Preparing them for what? Long haul flights in the economy cabin of an airplane?
5) We need to respect and interact with our natural environment."Nature deficit disorder" is a phrase coined by an author in 2005 and while it hasn't quite reached the legitimacy of mental illness, I really believe it should. Being one with nature is not just about the simple health benefits of sunshine and greenery, it's about understanding the world we live in at a much deeper level than most children currently do. We need to know where the food we eat comes from; which creatures thrive in our environment and why; what living our lives costs the environment and how we can alleviate the problems this creates. I remember when I moved to Pakistan as a child I was puzzled by my peers' aversion to or hatred for animals, insects and dirt. They would shriek with alarm if a bee flew into the classroom, throw stones at stray cats and dogs, sooner be bored inside than risk "getting black" in the sun and mucking about in dirt was something for the maali to do. This is a problem and our schools need to fix it, starting with the mindsets of educators. The earth is not something to shrink away and hide from; it's the only home we've got.
These five principles are the ones on which a number of successful approaches to childhood development are built around, from the Reggio Emilia philosophy to the Waldorf method to the current Finnish guidelines for early years education. I'm waiting for a day when Pakistan catches up. My kid is here now and I'm not any closer to deciding where he goes to school.
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